I am very aware of what words i speak when my babies are around me. I never talk to them as though i am greater to them, i really make sure that they understand that i am their mum however i am not above them or below them ALWAYS beside them.

I know that what i speak they hear, what i do they see and the way i act is what they will become.

Do you speak to your babies as if they are below you? You know we are all on a level playing field.
When speaking to them do you come from a place of authority or kindness & understanding?

Conscious parenting is having those lines of communication open.

I am loving the conversations i have been having with my girls lately, covering lots of different topics. I love how they feel so comfortable to say certain things and ask me certain questions. I feel that since i have started this journey of healing self it has allowed our connection to be
on a deeper level. They feel me and i allow them to just be. With no judgment, no expectations, no gender, no fear.

My girl asked me a question the other day after having a beautiful conversation that led us to a topic that i was not expecting. Following my answer my baby said to me ‘mum would you still love me if blah blah blah?’ I turned around and said 100% my darling, i love you unconditionally which means no matter what you do or how you act or who you are with i will still love you with all my heart. She said oh that’s good to know. ❤️

I think conscious parenting is allowing our babies to have a voice. To allow them to speak what is on their mind. To make them feel safe & supported no matter what they decide in their life. To help guide them but in a way that does not smother them. To have open lines of communication & to be their to just listen when they need it. As conscious parents we need to come from a place of nonjudgement, drop the attachment to what WE think would be best for our babies and really allow them to be THEMSELVES, whatever that may look like for them.

As my babies grow up our conversations and their needs change, to stay connected WE must grow. I am always learning how to be a great parent ❤️